This thread explains some things, lol.
Eladiun is right to call out flynn, and if he hadn't, I was about to (hence my quoting of post with a "this"). However, the warranted level of harassment is inversely proportional to the response of being called out. Note flynn's response:
flynnjsw wrote on Jan 26
th, 2011 at 7:29am:
Actually I did, not really because he called her a bitch honestly; mostly because I was already pissed off at him for being a total fucking tard. Calling Gawna a bitch just gave me a reason. I guess that makes me an asshole. So be it.
He didn't try to make excuses for what he did, rather, he
openly admitted the real motive, and he
embraced the asshole-like nature of the move.
Compare this to the response seen from others who have been called out for similar behavior. This is why I consider the entirety of Eladiun's responses to have gone too far. E, I think you should have reached this post a page or three earlier:
Eladiun wrote on Jan 26
th, 2011 at 2:28pm:
Fair enough... I said my piece.
All of that said, this was a total dick move, in fact it's one of Wizgoddess' favorite tricks. Not many want to be known as "the other Wizgoddess". With that in mind, the entire purpose of heckling each other about this kind of thing is to inform the offender how such things are perceived, and, if at all possible, reach an outcome similar to this:
flynnjsw wrote on Jan 26
th, 2011 at 2:17pm:
I am still not going to appologize, but I will make sure that if a similar situation occurs that I will come here first.
For his dedicated and
shockingly lonely efforts at attaining this outcome, as well as the rather fun reading material that resulted, I award Eladiun the Seal of Approval.

Now, as a side note, I follow the "do not report" mantra, though I do allow for exceptions. To date, I have made two exceptions, both long before the existence of the Vault: Gunga and Quanefel. In both cases, they had deliberately baited and reported me (infractions mere minutes after posting!), so I came back with both barrels blazing. I don't tell anyone else who, how, or when they should report, but I reserve the right to pass judgment on those whom I consider to have itchy trigger fingers on the report revolver.