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May 15th, 2011 at 7:37pm
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Not sure how many of you read the General Forum this weekend but there was something of a very sad story there. Apperently a BF/GF were running in a raid in my home server Agro on Friday night when he started complaining of chest pains in voice chat as they are progressing in the raid.

He tries to tough it out, starts lagging behind the party and finally stops all together says something in voice like "It hurts"; then nothing further from him at all.

The GF tries calling him, no answer, then calls 911. Finds out six hours later he died of a heart attack while online with them.

A very sad story, I really feel bad for her and all their friends involved. I cannot even begin to imagine how terrifying it would be to be actually talking and interacting with somone and they just die.

Now to the ballsy part. I log into the forums today to check and see how the GF and friends are doing. Cannot find the post, so I look a few pages back still nothing. Check my posts to see if it got moved to somewhere else and realise my condolance post has been deleted along with the GFs topic.

That takes some serious balls on a Mods part. Someone reaches out for help and support from fellow gamers in their moment of pain, and the Devs just make it disapear like it never existed. Not locked, just gone.

I always knew the Devs were idiots for the most part, I never once suspected souless. I stand corrected Devs.
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Reply #1 - May 15th, 2011 at 8:14pm
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Playing Devil's Advocate here.... but I suppose it is possible the post was removed because the mods figured out that it was a hoax.  Speaking as a medical professional, I could think of several questions relating to the chain of events that you described.  Of course each and every question would have an answer that ends up in "patient deceased".

I am not saying that this was a hoax (I hope truly that it was, purely for the sake of the player who apparently had an MI).

I offer my sincere sympathy to the friends and family of the deceased.  Losing someone is never easy, and the sudden loss of a friend is much worse.
  
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Reply #2 - May 15th, 2011 at 8:37pm
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Chest pains are serious - instead of toughing it out as you said, should of called the his doctor or the hospital. 

Then again, I might just be this way because grandfather died of a heart related issue.

That being said, my condolences if it is not a hoax.
  

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Reply #3 - May 15th, 2011 at 8:42pm
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Epoch wrote on May 15th, 2011 at 8:37pm:
Chest pains are serious - instead of toughing it out as you said, should of called the his doctor or the hospital. 

Then again, I might just be this way because grandfather died of a heart related issue.

That being said, my condolences if it is not a hoax.


The problem with chest pains is that it can be anything from gas to full on MI. I always tried to not get too excited without other symptoms presenting.

Condolences if it was not a hoax. I actually commented in that thread.
  
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Reply #4 - May 16th, 2011 at 3:11am
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Dr. Evil says "Retrosternal crushing chest pain is your body's way of saying 'put down the cheeseburger'"

I hope it was a hoax tho, that would be sad otherwise.

  

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They very well might have removed it because it's nobody elses bees wax, regardless of the validity. There's not necessarily any idiocy involved in this case.
  

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Reply #6 - May 16th, 2011 at 8:47am
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If it is real, condolences and the devs suck.

Funny in an odd sort of way, but back in Oct 07 something very similar happened to me.

I had severe chest pains, and quit in the middle of a raid to go to the hospital.  I had what they call a "cardiac event" and it altered my ekg which now shows that I have left ventricular hypertrophy http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&cd=1&sqi=2&ved=0CCAQFjAA&url=http%3A%2... (look it up if you don't know what that is...it isn't that traumatic).  And we found out about my NASH http://www.google.com/url?url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hepatitis%23Non-alcoh....

It scared a bunch of the old Loreseekers gang who were in the raid with me (for some reason I'm wanting to say it was a Titan...but don't really remember, could've been Tempest or VoN, but certainly not Reaver as that is too short and it was before my fascination with DQ).

It did result in one good thing.  I quit smoking my old Lucky Strike cigarettes cold turkey.  Working on year 4 now.

So, yes, CP can be something as ridiculous as gas to as critical as an MI, but in any case medical attention should be sought.  Yes, you'll feel like an ass if the CP was from that burrito you ate earlier, but you'll feel like you just scored a goal for a Mexican soccer team if you find something serious early enough to prevent something really unfortunate.

I do so hope that this is a hoax, but if not, my deepest condolences to those affected.
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I think the "Devs" (developers) would be very upset that the "Mods" (moderators) Cordovan and Tolero were considered as Devs.

Handing out infractions and allowing people who played the game for 2 days to write Game guides (aka Melee 101) <> Dev.
  
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perhaps it was real and the girl asked the mods to take it down to lessen the sheer horror to herself and her friends.

having a thread where assholes make fun of your dead lover is about as bad as online can be.
  
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Reply #9 - May 16th, 2011 at 9:13am
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The Turbine legal and PR team would probably have a problem with a thread that talks about someone having a heart attack and dying while playing DDO. It sucks but that is probably something they wouldn't want associated with the game.
  

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stainer wrote on May 16th, 2011 at 9:13am:
The Turbine legal and PR team would probably have a problem with a thread that talks about someone having a heart attack and dying while playing DDO. It sucks but that is probably something they wouldn't want associated with the game.


This.

Legal issues make some shit unpostable.
  
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Reply #11 - May 16th, 2011 at 10:06am
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bob the builder wrote on May 16th, 2011 at 8:50am:
I think the "Devs" (developers) would be very upset that the "Mods" (moderators) Cordovan and Tolero were considered as Devs.

Handing out infractions and allowing people who played the game for 2 days to write Game guides (aka Melee 101) <> Dev.

Yeah that's pretty much an insult to those guys...  Lips Sealed
  
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Infraction wrote on May 16th, 2011 at 8:56am:
perhaps it was real and the girl asked the mods to take it down to lessen the sheer horror to herself and her friends.

having a thread where assholes make fun of your dead lover is about as bad as online can be.

The girl in question asked for the thread to be deleted. She asked this in several posts (of the type "How can I delete this thread?" etc), as she said she had gotten the information she was looking for.

So the mods just did what she wanted. But I suppose they would had deleted it anyway, due to possible legal issues as mentioned, and several breaches of the TOS in the thread (where people advised her to look through his stuff for his account information and the like).
  
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Reply #13 - May 16th, 2011 at 6:01pm
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Didn't see it mentioned in this thread, but was this post where the GF said the BF was 2 levels short of completionist and she wanted to finish it for him as a tribute to him?
  

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Yeah that thread was kinda nasty with the insults. I hope it was a hoax but if not well, best of luck to her in dealing with legal hassles to get the completionist done.
  

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Reply #16 - May 22nd, 2011 at 5:31pm
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I read this thread.

She was asking how to get his password for his account so she could finish his completionist task.  Supposedly.  It did sound fishy.

He had ran a BUNCH of RAIDS the day before.  Her (word filter)  said he died "recently."  She did NOT say yesterday.  This was the first part that I found suspicious.  Later on, when a poster pointed this out she came up with more story.

Now, if you just lost your significant other, why the heck would you be worried about the game?  I think I would try calling the parents and thinking about the funeral.  Not playing a game.  My perspective is completely different than hers.

Second, the player was in a guild with 34 people in it.  When this was pointed out, she said most of them were his alts.  Then another person in the guild posted.  So, there were several people that would help her complete his goal.  She did not NEED to ask on the forums.

The reasons the thread was eliminated is that it could lead to people learning how to hack an account and making it that easy to find the information would not be good.  Such as the AWFUL wall that gave out ALL of our account names to the spammers and hackers.  They did NOT get the passwords, just our account names.

What was this person asking for?  How to get the password.  Not good.

If this was an honest post, it was dealt with internally by Turbine after they looked into it.
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notajedi wrote on May 22nd, 2011 at 5:31pm:
Her boobies said he died "recently." 


Pwned by the word filter!!!  Cheesy Grin
  

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Arkat wrote on May 22nd, 2011 at 6:43pm:
Pwned by the word filter!!!  Cheesy Grin


This place has the best word filter evar.  Cheesy
  

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Damnit, still don't know the word filter Cheesy
  

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Well, if she asked for it to be taken down, I guess that pretty much nulls my complaint on it being deleted.

I have noticed that sometimes when someone dies their close friends/family do very strange things. I had a good friend that when his father died, he spent the entire very next day doing nothing but spit-polishing and detailing his car.

It was not that he was uncaring or unconcerned, I think that is was just such a huge shock to him, that sometimes it helps the mind to cope by concentrating on the littler unimportant things in your life until you can finally wrap your head around it.

So yes, her concern about his account was strange, but still possibly true I think. That and declaring someone as dead would be a strange and very small windowed scam indeed as it would be disproved the moment he logged back in, or one of his other DDO/online friends informed him of his newly deceased status.
  

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Chris79 wrote on May 23rd, 2011 at 1:26am:
Damnit, still don't know the word filter Cheesy


what did you say?
  

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Put a word after her and see what happens.
  
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