So when I come online I usually just check the LFM board to see if anyone has a grp up for something in range and if not I'll go ahead and post a group.

I also notice that often times people have a group up with no one in it so far and no one joins their groups.  I will see this a few times over a few days, i.e. the same person with an LFM up with no one in their group.   

So because Im not a fucking douchebag,  I will hit that person's LFM if its something I am in range for, at which point usually the group will fill up as per usual.   

I will then start to see that person's LFM's have people in them when I come online, whereas before that person's LFM was always up with no one joining. 

At this point still without thinking too much into it, I sometimes post an LFM for something.   What I start to notice over an extended period of time, is that the people who I joined their LFM when they had no one in it, won't ever join my LFM.  Occassionally I will see these people join my LFM if its already mostly filled. 

So its like there is definitely something going on.   The only people who tend to join my LFM are like unknown people, even though everyone of significance knows me and knows I am a top tier player.  Its like there is some type of strange hierarchy going on.   

I see other same skilled class players with LFM's up with no one joining.  I say hey I know this guy we've grped over the years, I'll hit his LFM, the group fills.. and then I see that guy with a group up most of the time with people in it.   I then post an LFM and it sits and no one joins even though I see these same people elligible and ungrouped. 

So of course this begs the question.. are most DDO players flaming homoqueers?   Honestly that is the only conclusion I can come to.   Thoughts? Feedback?

Daggertooth wrote on Feb 16^th, 2017 at 1:08am:


I think what you are experiencing there, is...ah, I will establish my statement later, first, let us see a few things.
1, People tend to join friends or guildies, and ppl posting lfms tend to accept those same people as well
2, What you see in lfm is bugged: first always click on Who panel, click inside the search tab, press enter, then u'll notice the who list starting to expand. When you switch back to LFparty tab, you will notice that surprise-surprise, a party that seemed to have only 2 ppl in it has actually 5 ppl in it, as lfm does not update properly.

I guess what I am saying is: it is not really a question of ddo players being gay really, more like you being retarded (and most likely gay too), for making a lot of outlandish, far fetched and dumb statements based on some personal experience. The red part clearly points toward this fact.

You are welcome.

Alex DeLarge wrote on Feb 16^th, 2017 at 4:25am:


I wanted to prove it Poirot-style, instead of ad-hominem style based on prior knowledge.

Daggertooth?

https://www.ddo.com/forums/showthread.php/314475-Clarify-the-Type-of-Run-in-LFM?...

https://www.ddo.com/forums/showthread.php/368771-Was-I-in-the-Wrong?highlight=
?

Alex Delange deleted his bait taking post.

I don't generally have a problem joining LFM's or having people apply to LFM's that I create. 

The only issue I've seen is that reaper has spread out the population a little more than normal and killed epic lfm's and end game lfm's. 

Asheras wrote on Feb 16^th, 2017 at 3:09pm:


That's been an increasing problem since MOTU. Prior to MOTU, once people flagged for Shroud, the population was only separated by the Epic ready and level capped players from non-Epic playing populace.

Daggertooth wrote on Feb 16^th, 2017 at 1:08am:


Calm down please. No reason to be excited.

It may also be quest selection. I typically only do one and done per quest per life.  If your LFM is for shit I've already done, I am probably not joining you.

Daggertooth wrote on Feb 16^th, 2017 at 9:10pm:


It is possible you are putting way too much thought and energy into this social/psycho-analysis of the LFM panel on your server.  Try this:

1) Login.
2) Check the LFM Panel.  If there is an LFM up for content you want to run, join it.
3) If there isn't, start your own LFM for content you want to run.
4) Start running the content.  If people join, great.  If not, who cares?
5) When finished with the run, go back to step 2 and repeat until you are out of gaming time for the day.

Unless you are trying to fill a raid, who cares if people are joining some other LFM or your LFM?

It's because OP is a bundle of sticks.

OP is OP in his OP shirt.

Daggertooth wrote on Feb 18^th, 2017 at 5:44pm:

I like how literally every response to that is telling you that you're retarded.  Every single one.

Most players are both gay and retarded.