what an offensive, selfish, disrespectful feminist. Why? Because she implies that its only offensive to her if a man does the things she uses as examples. If a woman told her "I'll come get you in a moment" or "ok hun" it is acceptable. But if a MAN does it, its FUCKING SEXIST ASSHOLE TIME. How is that not the definition of sexism?
this is like a political correctness argument basically. people want to ignore differences and pretend everyone is equal and all this fake everyone wins, everyone is the same bullshit. It couldn't be farther from the truth. Different races have different features, are more or less susceptible to certain diseases, different genders are built differently, their bodies produce different chemicals. every human alive has different DNA. No one is equal to anyone. Every single human is a unique individual with its own set of strengths and weaknesses.
Bitch, recognize that you are a woman. Be proud of who you are, and recognize that people will react to it. If you want to play with people who are identical to yourself, a party full of equals, then play alone. No one is slighting you or mistreating you, they're simply interacting with you. If you got turned down due to being female, or were literally declared to be inferior based solely on gender, then yes, you'd have a point. However that is not the case. You are the cause of this issue, no one else. You perceive communication as insults. If you perceive everything as insults, you are bound to be insulted, and as a result uncomfortable. No one is mistreating you. It is your inherent perception of being treated as inferior that makes it a reality. Stop feeling like you are inferior, and their 'sexist comments' will become playful communication. Its on you. The life you live is the life you live. It is your perception of it that determines how that life makes you feel.
If you can not realize that it is your interpretation of social interaction that is the issue rather than the forms of interaction, then you should pre warn everyone you run with that you get offended by inter-gender socialization and they should not speak with you at all during the time you spend questing together.
incase your feminism prevents you from realizing this, men treat women different because they fucking love them. men believe women are superior to males. this is why they flirt, joke, prod, and so on. they want to interact with you. men fucking LOVE women. you get called honey because we adore you. we give you items in game because we cherish you. we make sure to grab your stone instead of leaving it there because we want to serve you. i could give a fuck for a mans soulstone, that nigga shouldnt have died. but muh wimminz? I'll let the rest of the party die to go back and save a fallen female. its called respect, and respect is a prequel to equality. We will never all be equals, until we all realize that we are all equally unique and stop ignoring our individuality. You are a right cunt for interpreting this as some form of insult. When we finally embrace each others differences universally, only then will we all be equals. You must accept that men enjoy females, you must realize that they dont want to insult you, they only want to interact. Men tell other men to go fuck themselves when they die in game and laugh about it. A man tells you he will pick up your soulstone and you make a rage post about it on ddo forums. Grow the fuck up.