karavek wrote on Jul 23
rd, 2016 at 10:56am:
Not to be a bother but what about PoE do you find too dark for family play? I can't think of a thing in that game that seems to mature really. Any child six plus should be familiar with stories like treasure island and the count of Monte cristo. And films like the last unicorn or a flight of dragons
Ten plus they should be watching the original RoboCop so they don't grow up thinking that new one is what people refer to. As long as the child understands what acting and make believe are which they bloody well should by ten. Otherwise the world is going to eat them up and not even have gristle to spit out.
It was mostly OK until the second half of book 3, where you started encountering heaps of starved and experimented on bodies. The women with tentacle arms with the bloody sutures where they attached were particularly disturbing.
There is a big difference between reading about stacks of starved bodies and experimenting on people, and seeing a well rendered graphical display of them. We've had family discussions about some pretty tough subjects - Charlie Hebdo, the Holocaust, even the Newtown shootings. They're tough on kids. Kids want to know about them, because they can't escape hearing about them, and the unknown but hinted at horror is even worse than hearing about them in the calm voice of a trusted adult. But seeing them in full Technicolor leads to nightmares.
I haven't ruled out PoE, I have family accounts for everyone and I've purchased storage and cosmetics for everyone, and we all have multiple characters. But when I say "Hey, we're done with homework and supper, what do you want to do for the next hour?" PoE isn't chosen. It's picked sometimes on a Saturday morning with a full day of sunshine ahead, but mostly PoE is when I'm gaming with a guildmate at night or staying home when the rest of the family is at my sister in-law's house (my wife learned long ago that it's just easier if I stay home).
Personally, I love PoE, but I like gaming with my family more, so games like Neverwinter and DDO win out. Or Pokemon Go. These days, we've been on so many family walks in the last week that my feet have blisters. I hope my family grows into PoE, but for now it's too dark.