So, there seem to be quite a few Druid fans hereabouts and I could seriously use some advice. I have finally managed to get my final life on my main and I want to come as close as I can to a hybrid melee/caster in wolf form. I made him an 18/2 Druid/Monk on his second life, running in GMoF and it was what inspired me to pick up some extra lives in the first place and it all sort of snowballed from there.

I'm only just sticking my head up above the Epic parapet properly for the first time since the enhancement pass (which came while I was in the middle of picking up my PL's) so my gear is... um... embarrassing. Pretty much just the village comms stuff, some addy knuckles and a +10 Stunning Dun Robar ring. I do have some Old Skool shizz like a bauble, but nothing significant.
At the moment, I'm inclining toward 17 Druid / 2 Monk / 1 Wiz (for the extra feat and the extra cleave from EK). I have only one of each past life. I believe I have managed to pick up +5 tomes for every stat except Charisma. (I have stupidly good tome luck; I have an entire page of unused, unbound +4's)
Obviously, something has to give in terms of DPS vs. casting, but I'm thinking that if I can get a high enough Earthquake DC, the awesome cc (along with Drifting Lotus) will compensate.
I love my cleaves and would be sad to do without them, but like I say, I know something has to give. Feats are so tight that human is pretty much the only choice.
At the moment, I am thinking along the lines of:
Monk: Stunning Fist, TWF
Wiz: Spell Focus: Evocation
Human Bonus: Power Attack
Levels: Maximize Spell, PL:Wizard, Completionist, Quicken Spell, ITWF, GTWF (or Heighten?), Greater SF: Evocation.
Epic feats: Great Cleave, Epic Spell Focus: Evocation, Improved Critical: Bludgeoning
ED feats: Tactician (not sure about this, might be better to take whichever of Heighten or GTWF I didn't pick up earlier), Perfect TWF
The other thing I might consider doing is dropping Quicken in favour of getting Tactician in the mix as well. I just don't know.
Toon will mainly be soloing. I'll take whatever advice I can get on which feats to drop and which to keep, and particularly how an earth to gear him. Frankly I don't have a clue these days what most of the items are that people go on about unless I look them up on the wiki